That’s a horrible word. But it’s true. I don’t instantly dismiss a potential ‘mate’ based on anything excluding any form of hard drug, because I don’t care for time wasting. And that to me is a waste of a life that I’m now looking after with both hands and a tight grip. Everything else can alter, I’m not the fussiest woman in the world. But I do have standards. I’m pretty sure that’s allowed right? If not I’d rather be alone forever than wasting my time.